We are based in a sleepy beach town in Florida, USA. We are just an average couple who have suffered devastating losses in our lives. In all our sorrow we still consider our life’s journey up to now to be a Beautiful Adventure. In order to heal our hearts and move forward, we have decided to travel abroad in hopes of fulfilling a reluctant desire for a new life. Currently, we are looking toward an extended trip to Asia.
Our country of choice: Thailand, Chiang Mai or Koh Samui. You are invited to come along as we embark on “Another Beautiful Adventure”. Eventually this site will transform into a travel blog. ~ Until then, I hope you enjoy this blog. I’ll be posting about things that interest me.
My name is Lynn. I was born and raised in a rural town in Southern Alabama, USA. As a child I was probably considered shy as I had a tendency to internalize a lot of fear and anxiety due to my own insecurities and erratic upbringing. Even today it seems I’ve been consistently misunderstood by my childhood peers and can’t quite figure out why.
I’ve lived in Texas, Colorado and finally, Florida. I married a great guy when we were both too young and we moved away to start our lives. It was only after I moved away that I truly began to grow. In 1981 I had a child, a beautiful son with severe disabilities. My life would never be the same.
It was then that I knew I had to overcome my shyness and confront the reality of the changes before me. Little did I know that this life changing event would be the catalyst for the direction of my entire adult life. Ultimately my marriage failed and later I met Rip. We had similar goals in life, our personalities complemented each other and he loved my son as though he were his own even though Rip had no children of his own. Parenting was a job that I took very seriously as there was no room for error with such a fragile child. I became both a warrior-mom and staunch advocate for the rights of the disabled for the 27 years. Then in an instant, my life dramatically changed again.
My son died 16 months ago. Six months after that my only nephew who was 22 years old, took his life. My days lately have been dark as I have been trying to heal my broken heart. I can feel the direction of my life changing dramatically with each passing day. I am compelled to find peace and be at peace. I am not only frightened at the prospect of moving on but also eager to get to where I am going. Surely God will find something for me to do once I arrive.
These days there are three things I’m most passionate about: The Rights of the Disabled, The Arts, and Politics pretty much in that order.
In the following video you will see Lynn’s world on any given day.








ps that word that appears before “Hey Lynn”, I don’t know what that is. It’s not suppose to be there. Thanks.
Hi Lynn, late last night I read your blog “About Us”. Yes, you and I are much alike in your remark of “started off shy, internalized feelings” and the part about your friends. People can be the biggest mystery of all! I have put human relationships into my own perspective. Life is a walk in the woods. Each person we meet on the trail is there to give or take something from us. Every encounter has something to offer. And every encounter gives us one more thing to add to who we are. I have friends that hated me for moving on, relocating out of state. But that was what I needed in order to grow. Before I moved to the outer banks of North Carolina, I lived in Richmond, Va. My mother who I was very close to, passed away unexpectedly at age 54. Of course my heart felt broken. I packed up my little Samari Sazuki and moved by myself to the outer banks. I had realized that we had no promises that tomorrow was going to be there for me so I took off and followed my dreams of living near the ocean. I met Michael a year later. He was the most grounded man I had met in years. He spilled all of his past into my lap with documented situations that happened in Vietnam and who he was. No BS. What girl wouldn’t be impressed? Lol! Anyway….the details you wrote about your recent losses have weighed heavy on my heart. Please give yourself a tight long hug for me. I so admire the love and strength that you possess. Keep up the good work Lady. I believe there are some wonderful things in store for you._By the way, I have started another blog http://www.eatablebiomatter.wordpress.com. When you have time check it out and add, if you will any and all thoughts. Also, I loved the pics of your home and flowers. They are beautiful._Have a terrific day._Shannon Scott “wenchhandle”
that is really a beautiful comment shannon. first of all, i’d like to say that i’m so sorry about the loss of your mother at such a young age. i’m glad my About Us page touched your heart, that speaks volumes about you and the things that are important to you. i will check out your other blog soon. thanks again!
nice web! all about love……
well Arifur, seems there’s not enough love in the world these days..thanks for noticing. really appreciate your signing my guestbook. i’ll be sure to give you a kind nod along with my other new guestbook signers tomorrow.
Hi Lynn, slight problem. The link to ‘Lynn’s surroundings’ above leads to a previous post but the pictures from there don’t load.
Or is it just me?
dave
i so appreciate your letting me know this dave. i fixed the problem, thanks.
Nice photos! Some folk will scratch their head about leaving this to go on holiday? Why? It looks lovely!
Great to hear Rip is OK. Come back soon Frank is getting lonely grinding chickens by himself
That is correct (I can’t’ even count the chickens that I’ve eaten recently in protest and anger)(The KFC workers just stare! at me) … and I have quite a few new essays ready to go!!!
They are even considering a National Frank Grinding Chicken Day !!!
what YnB said…… are things ok with Rip? Last I read you were visiting the hospital…..
Everything okay??
Hi Lynn,
I just wanted to say hello and let you know I was very touched by your story. May you continue to persevere!
Greetings from Texas,
Ang
hi ang, er..skirts mcgee..i like that name, it has a ring to it. thank you for leaving tha nice comment. always appreciate anyone curious enough to read my about us page. i hope you’ll come back. today i took the day off because i was “tagged”.
wednesdays i usually feature new guest book signers and their sites if they have one. this way eveyone gets acquainted with who’s here and commenting. feel free to sign it if you come back this way. thanks again.
Thanks for the info Lynn and I will definitely revisit. I really like your blog!
you look familiar to me, have we met?
I don’t think so. I’ve never lived in FL. People are always telling me I look like someone!
well it’s nice to see your smiling face again! thanks for checking in tonight skirts.
Hi Lynn, I enjoyed your story. Sheila had told me some of the details. But I did not know about your nephew. The older we get the more sorrow we face. Glad to see that you have a good guy to lean on.
whoa, talk about a blast from the past!
very nice of you to visit me here TT. i’m flattered you took the time to read my About Us page. thanks for your nice comment. i hope you’ll come back soon and if you feel like it, sign my guestbook with an uploaded pic~ always looking for eye candy to draw the folks in on Sexy Monday! (smile)
Hi ya Lynn and Rip, just doing a drive-by. Well bravo for getting your life back on track.
we’re not there yet, but i think i see the road ahead…up a bit… i’ll let you know when we get to it. thanks for the drive-by…
I wish you both all your hearts desire after life has shat on you bigtime, thought I’d been thro the mill…
dave
hey, i appreciate the nice words. it’s either give up or keep going and i’m too stubborn to give up just yet. how ’bout signing my guestbook seeing as how you’re hanging out here my pad ocassionally? thank you!
You may have left a comment for me at madhatters?
Sorry, I can’t understand it!
that’s okay dave, i left it this a.m. at madhatters because wheni tried to comment on your post i didn’t get to submit my comment in any other format but a google sign-in..weird, i’ve heard about that before but never experienced it. thought you might want to know though.
sorry i wasn’t clearer but i probably just woke up..
Got it!
Good Lord, Lynn…
I just read this page. I have a son myself and I cannot even imagine the depth of where you must be. I send you tons of love and light and I thank you that during your time of greiving and great transformation you shine out so brightly…..
(smiling) thanks for all that mushy stuff forrester. i humbly accept your tons of light and love..
They don’t call me the Mushmeister General for nothin’, ya know!
oh. is that what they’re calling you these days?…i’ve heard of you. (wink)
I’m so sorry about your son. I’m sure he’s in a better place. A place where he’s probably free now. You sound like a wonderful mother and wife. Rip (and your son) is lucky to have you.
Do continue writing, I will keep on reading.
WHOOPS THAT WAS ANOTHER MAD HATTER…. I WILL ADD YOU FOLKS TO MY BLOG ROLL. SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR SON AND I WILL NOT SAY I CAN IMAGINE WHAT YOU MUST BE GOING THROUGH BECAUSE UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO ME I HAVE NO IDEA OTHER THAN IT MUST HURT LIKE HELL. I HAVE TWO DAUGHTERS ONE 19 AND ONE 26 AND MY HEART WOULD RIP OUT OF MY CHEST IF I LOST EITHER ONE OF THEM.
yes the heart can actually break, it’s not just a saying and you feel it the moment it happens. thank you for visiting, feel free to sign my e-guestbook if you decide visit again..
LYNN, THANKS FOR THE ADD TO YOUR BLOG ROLL.
my pleasure mr purple hatter man!
You blog has the capacity to influence and change lives. I hope people will know what ‘courage’ means from your blog.
well ~uh~
that is a very nice thing for you to say about my blog. thanks for spending some time on this page, it is a very personal page and I’m glad you took the time to read it. have a great day/evening…..
I am fascinated by your blog. Inspiring, insightful, and witty, what more could you ask for.
I’m definitely going to need a good couple of hours to peruse. It’s times like these I’m glad I have nothing to do at work.
I’m glad I found my way here…
b:)
Welcome bschooled, pleasure to blog you. Now even you are a Tripster! You’ve got a good thing going over at your place too. Very entertaining….Enjoy the trip while you’re here.
You have a beautiful and amazing blog, I love it. I am so glad that I have come here. Also, I’m sure you have noticed I like writing comments. LOL. But seriously, this is a wonderful blog.
Thank you. We just had our deposition in the case of our son’s wrongful death today, It was a sad day. However, I am glad to see your comment. Yes blogging is somewhat of a hobby of mine now that I am suddenly alone during the daytime. I do think it will take me a few days to recover from this day;s experience.
I just read this and I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Although, I don’t have any children myself, I can just imagine the heartache you must suffer. That is exciting about the possibility of moving to the South Pacific! Good luck with that! And with this marvelous thing called “Blogging” we’ll all still be able to keep in touch, no matter where you might end up! The South Pacific does sound fabulous though!
That’s one of the nicest thing anyone’s ever said to me. I’m touched. Thanks for checking us out and don’t be a stranger.
So, you think you are a blogger? Well, hell yeah you are! Every thing you have to say is relavent to others. You look at life in a fantastic way. I feel your pain and yet, I will never know what you have been through. I just ask that we can spend some quality time together before you depart on your trip. I and others have had the pleasure of having you and Rip in our lives, and we are better for it.
Thanks
Annette
Lynn you will never know how much you mean to so many around you. Although you and I have not kept up like we should have through the years, I feel a certain bond with you. You have shared such kind words with me during my trying times with a sick family member. The warmth of your spirit always soothes my troubled mind and leaves me with an understanding of just how strong one can be when faced with challenges.
While we, here in the states, will miss you I do wish you all the best on your move to the Islands. The sun will now shine brighter on the people of the Cook Islands while you are there…
thank you, don’t know if ive replied to this yet. your words are so eloquent.
Good Luck you two!! I wish the best in everyway! Lynne you are a strong woman you will make waves wherever you go! It looks absolutely beautiful. I’m sure both of you will be embraced by the locals!
Love the pics of you and Rip past and present..you both look very good together..Rip wish we could have met..I’m sure we would get along great!